Posts by Introvert 2

in the end i handed the dissociation letter in hand and a binding to each of the elders, with an article i wrote on the subject, "are jehovah's witnesses a destructive sect?

Introvert 2

Thank-you, following this is must read

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i know we cannot answer this, how many are physically in, mentally out (pimo), but i heard an amazing piece of news the other day.. an ex-p.o and ex-elder, a long time regular pioneer, and when i knew him a stalwart believer, went for a drink with another jw who has actually left, but is not df or anything.. in the course of conversation he came out with this bombshell "well, i am actually an atheist now, i just go along to keep my wife happy".. i also heard of a number of youngsters that i know personally who are simply living their life as they want, whilst making sure they don't get df'd for family and social reasons.. if as it seems the pimo's are a huge number, could there be a huge " awakening" where they all realize they are in a huge group, and they all say " eff it, lets call it a day on all the jw s**t ".

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wishful thinking, but.....just possible ?.

Introvert 2

Of two congregations I know many are there for appearances and the almighty social club. Many are there for inheritance and family businesses ( cleaning, cleaning supplies, restaurant, construction, renovation and sales ) So basically there to uphold the lifestyle, flaunt their wealth and to brown nose for gain monetary and social advantage. As previously mentioned most true believers now tend to be middle aged or older. The "Young Wans" like to talk about their businesses, cars and prized items recently acquired ( blessings from Jehovah of course ) as in phones, computers, clothes and of course for us Québecois " vacances dans le sud ! "

On edit : RV ownership, eating out and stuffing one's face in restaurants also score big.

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Apostate is an easy excuse

by Formerbrother in

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it seems to me that if there is something that any jw doesnt want anybody to look into, then they can just say the one word apostate, and nobody wil look at it.. this is rather convenient.. what if it is the truth, still dont even look at it to find out?.

Introvert 2

Yea, though stopping trigger word most definitely. Mind control -brainwashing 101. Steven Hassan's Cult Mind Control covers it IIFC.

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Crooked Teeth

by Introvert 2 in

well 55 yo this summer times flies.. was in my late thirties when i started thinking about getting braces or some other treatment for my crowded teeth.

decided to put it off a few years later as 'the new system' ™ was right around the corner.

then went through a huge burn out depression and my teeth became a lesser priority.

Introvert 2

OK great advice above shooting for repair and braces !! Thanks all !

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Crooked Teeth

by Introvert 2 in

well 55 yo this summer times flies.. was in my late thirties when i started thinking about getting braces or some other treatment for my crowded teeth.

decided to put it off a few years later as 'the new system' ™ was right around the corner.

then went through a huge burn out depression and my teeth became a lesser priority.

Introvert 2

Totally I will ! I feel self conscious about it around people and see the reaction from interested females as soon as I open my mouth, instant turn off. They're not that bad like 6/10 at best no cavities but enough to look a little retarded. Very fixable just frustrated at a the decade or so lost in the twoof going around in circles.

Thanks Scott !

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Crooked Teeth

by Introvert 2 in

well 55 yo this summer times flies.. was in my late thirties when i started thinking about getting braces or some other treatment for my crowded teeth.

decided to put it off a few years later as 'the new system' ™ was right around the corner.

then went through a huge burn out depression and my teeth became a lesser priority.

Introvert 2

OK right on good stuff will do !! The 'New System'™ argument was used as a cop out to avoid reality in certain areas of my life I guess.. WT did mention in print to put off materialistic things such as having nice teeth and I did come across it somewhere I kid you not !

Ultimately I should of been smart enough to see past the BS, but at that point in my life it seems like I needed to believe the hype..

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Crooked Teeth

by Introvert 2 in

well 55 yo this summer times flies.. was in my late thirties when i started thinking about getting braces or some other treatment for my crowded teeth.

decided to put it off a few years later as 'the new system' ™ was right around the corner.

then went through a huge burn out depression and my teeth became a lesser priority.

Introvert 2

Well 55 yo this summer times flies.. Was in my late thirties when I started thinking about getting braces or some other treatment for my crowded teeth. Decided to put it off a few years later as 'The New System' ™ was right around the corner. Then went through a huge burn out depression and my teeth became a lesser priority. Although I brush often, take good care of my health and do lots of sporting activities I think it's high time I address this issue if I don't want to be a Eunuch the rest of my life. Anybody else go through this and what would you do ? Attempt repair - braces etc. or just go with a nice set of dentures ? I hear they change the shape of your face and that you have no where near the biting pressure of natural teeth. Oh, by the way thanks for this WT. What a great help you've been..

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Goodbye my friends.

by StephaneLaliberte in

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for almost 12 years now, i have been coming to this site on a regular basis and in the last 5, i “faded out”.

i never regretted this and never will.

unfortunately though, yesterday, i realized that, until i can publically tell all my old acquaintances why i have left, i will never be truly free.

Introvert 2

Stephane, maybe you could whip up a few vids with the Quebec French Canadian JW culture / slant ? You know the sort of crazy Catholics on steroids way they tend to be ? There's isn't much apostate material out there for us Ex JW Québecois.. Just saying that would be so cool if ever you decide to go that route.

Anyhow ice to have you back, mon frère ! HeHe ( the French Canadian Congs. make a big deal out of calling everyone Frère and Soeure so and so etc. Too funny !! )